Someday...

Valentines Day has come and gone – thank goodness! I have nothing against the holiday, I just get tired of friends and family questioning me about when I will get someone special…

I always tell them the same answer: Someday…

It isn’t like one can go down to the store and pick someone and go from there! Well… you could… but you might get pepper sprayed :-)

Maybe I am weird… I don’t think I could ever ask a stranger/someone I don’t know really well out… but, I have issues with taking “just friends” to the next level… because what if they say no? I would have no issues staying friends, but would they think differently? I think friendship is important and hurting that would be horrible…

That said… what if they are expecting you to go further than just friends and you are to shy to ask?

There are so many complex variables and because of that I will always give my answer as “someday”. Would I like to be “in a relationship” sooner rather than later? Maybe… Is there someone that I would like to ask but am too afraid to? Absolutely. What will I do? I am not sure… I guess time will tell… Someday…